I came upon this site tonight. I read each post and now have tears rolling down my cheecks. I do not have any advice or wisdom to share. I just wanted to say my heart breaks for you and tonight I will say a prayer.
Last May the specialist told us our DD was coming to the end of her life. To make a long story short he "jumped the gun" so to speak and thought her brain was getting worse. After 2 weeks of testing we received the news it was not that at all. This all took place during Mothers day last year. The worst Mothers day ever.
I hope you are doing as well as you can be. Thinking about you on the anniversary of the loss of your son!
Thinking of my nephew Damien and my niece Stacy on this day. Hugs to all the families who have lost a son or daughter. Damien we miss you.
Aunt Michele
Hi Stacy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I really don't know how I came across this thread but I'm glad I ended up here. Hope things are getting better. YOU DESERVE THE BEST FROM LIFE. Try doing things your son would love to do, that should keep his memory at best. I KNOW he's watching you up from heaven and smiling. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and hugs.
I understand how you feel. I lost my daughter when she was only 14 and the pain seemed unbearable. She was every Dad's Dtr. It was so bad that I would pull off on the side of the road on my way to work and cry. For five years I visited her grave site every day and said a prayer. I am now starting to realize that she's O.K. and in a better place. When my time comes, She will be the first one to greet me. I pray that in time you will feel the same about your son. You will never be over the pain but be grateful you had him as long as you did and one day you will be to- gether.
Good thoughts and prayers.