I'd be too afraid that it would take away dd's personality-the dd I know. What would we do with our kids if they didn't have their special areas of interest or were suddenly social butterflies? It would be too weird...
Too hard for me to even contemplate.
Would I take away the anxiety and sensitivities if I could guarantee that's ALL that would be taken away? Heck yes, I'd do that. But I still think it's a "package" deal.
I would love mine to be "social butterflies" because that would mean they are forming connections to other people which is what life is about! I would take that weirdness anyday! Mine do have friends but I'm not sure they'll make the effort when they are older. I don't want them alone when I'm gone.
What are your daughter's special interests? She's a cutie, by the way!