No 30K would include the plot, the headstone, the casket, the vault, the body prep, the viewing and the funeral. I meant it as if we had to buy plot and do all the normal funeral stuff we didn't do. And this is assuming nothing special.
Mom had a plot (Dad passed many years ago). Due to COVID we did not have a viewing or funeral. We walked past the expensive caskets and got a rose gold metal that matched my Dad's grey metal. We got the basic vault because that is all that is needed. We did have her prepped because my siblings wanted their families to see her. The only plus in that was she was a shell of herself when she passed after a month in a hospital (COVID keeping out visitors). She looked like herself again and that was a good last memory. But it was only our immediately family who got 10 minutes with her before they took her to site. Funeral home was on cemetery property. Her minister, immediate family, 15 minute "service" and we all went home, no gathering.
So for my Mom's bare bones event ...
Body preparation for a 10 minute immediate family viewing
Casket
Vault
Internment
Headstone
Tent & Chairs for 15 minute graveside
$18,000
They said their worst plot in cemetery by road was around $6,000-8,000.
Then all the funeral and viewing costs ... adds up fast.
This just isn't sustainable except for the wealthy.
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