PollyannaMom
I was a click-clack champ!!
- Joined
- May 16, 2006
Nobody is unhappy. I was just asking if people would want to know who their biological family was. Everyone is telling me what we should do and no one is answering the question. Everyone spends money on ancestry kits and DNA swabs yet they don't want to know who they share 50% of their DNA with. It's cool really. I know the Dis pretty well.
I'll answer the question. - No, I would not have wanted to find out at 20 years old that my sister was really my mother. I would have been devastated, lost all trust in the family I had grown up with, and been unbelievably angry at my father for letting me go in the first place. For me, personally, it would not have ended well.
I know it's not the way things are done today (and I think that's a good thing) but back them, everyone involved believed they were protecting this child by giving her (or him? - I don't remember if you said) a "normal life". To take away that sense of normalcy now would mean everyone's sacrifices were for nothing.