Hi,
I am single and do not prefer to stay at the AS. Mostly because I have found them to be quite noisy with small rooms. As I don't have any children (although I like children, just not in large numbers) I am not overly found about staying at a hotel where I will be swimming with 50 at one time.
My next vacation is at PORS. To me it is a more adult themed resort with various pools, beautiful grounds and larger rooms.
My suggestion is if you intend to spend more time at the hotel, you might be happier with a larger room, several pools, two vanities and theming that you and your parents will enjoy. Your children will not be as happy but you will have a more adult vacation. However, if you are going there more for the kids and don't plan to spend a lot of time in the hotel than you will probably love the AS.
Either way have a great time.