jaineparr
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- May 7, 2008
Compromise and a schedule with some wiggle room in it.
I thank anyone in the group that asks for something that is important for them to have a good time at the parks. "Thanks for letting us know that. Let's see how we can best make that happen." And I whip out a map or a schedule and we adjust the plans. It is not worth it to do the parks with someone who is not enjoying themselves. I don't mean not liking it as much as you are, but someone who is exhausted, hungry or ill, who wants very strongly to be elsewhere, or is actively unhappy.
I planned a lot of extra time to get from one place to another, knowing that we'd pause on the way. I'm the commando of the group, but I'm also the photographer. So, when I'd stop to take photos, the rest of the group would relax and get a brief rest. I was also the one who wanted to wait in line for character meet and greets. This created another rest time for the others in the group. Sitting down for a snack helped a lot. A 15 minute pause to consume an ice cream or a cold drink makes you feel much more relaxed. Standing up to eat does not feel the same, even if you aren't moving.
I thank anyone in the group that asks for something that is important for them to have a good time at the parks. "Thanks for letting us know that. Let's see how we can best make that happen." And I whip out a map or a schedule and we adjust the plans. It is not worth it to do the parks with someone who is not enjoying themselves. I don't mean not liking it as much as you are, but someone who is exhausted, hungry or ill, who wants very strongly to be elsewhere, or is actively unhappy.
I planned a lot of extra time to get from one place to another, knowing that we'd pause on the way. I'm the commando of the group, but I'm also the photographer. So, when I'd stop to take photos, the rest of the group would relax and get a brief rest. I was also the one who wanted to wait in line for character meet and greets. This created another rest time for the others in the group. Sitting down for a snack helped a lot. A 15 minute pause to consume an ice cream or a cold drink makes you feel much more relaxed. Standing up to eat does not feel the same, even if you aren't moving.