Each evening I would get daughter bathed and ready for bed. Next I would crawl under the covers with her while I read a book to her or just talk with her about her day. Spending the 20 -30 minutes each evening laying in the darkened room was some of the best spent time of my day. Not sure if it is the darkness or the feeling of being secure with mom near but daughter would share her days fun and even bad times. If I had not taken the time to lay down with her she might never have shared this information. I know as busy moms we could use that 20-30 mins to fold clothes, do dishes, read a news paper. But hearing your daughter talk to you about school, friends, and homework ended up being so much better.
My daughter never had a nightmare nor was she ever afraid of the dark. I wonder if having me near her each evening was a factor?
Oh well Kudos to the mom's and dads that take time to make their kids feel safe and sound each evening.