phillmolly
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 21, 2007
There are three familes involed here, mine, my brothers and my sisters.
I mentioned a few months ago to my sister that I wanted to take my five year old son to WDW in the spring. I misteakely opened my big mouth and said that we would consider taking her daughter, also five excatly two weeks younger than my son, with us.
My brother and sister in law knew we wanted to go to WDW this spring and they also wanted to go on a vacation/trip. They have two children, a boy, 10 and a girl, 7. We travel often with them, last year we all went on a Disney cruise, and in 2007 my DH and I went to WDW with them. We all travel pretty well together. I love to do all the planning and such and DH and SIL are very easy going and just go with the flow. Sometimes my brother will want to do something different and we work it out.
The trip we now have planned for April is driving from MI to AL (10 hours), for a two night stop to see my MIL, and then driving from AL to Orlando (10 hours) for five days, and then driving home over two days.
If we take my neice we will have to drive two cars, my mini van can barely fit the seven of us and there is no way we could squish in 8.
My brother doesn't mind taking his car and even though it would double our fuel cost, having the extra seats and trunk space would be nice. Plus the 10 year old can drive my DH crazy in about 10 seconds!
The biggest issue of why I am not sure about taking my niece is that she has a hard time spending the night away from her mom, let alone 10! Just last week she was going to spend the night at my SIL and my sister had to pick her up at 1:00 am because she was crying and wouldn't settle down. The last time she tried to spend the night with me I had to drive her home in the middle of the night also. She is one the sweetest, smartest little girls I know, and I love her to death. I know she loves me, and DS is her bestest friend, and she is DS bestest friend. But I worry about her having an awful time and ruining the trip for the rest of us. My sister also has a ton of wierd diet restrictions, like she can't eat yogurt or milk, but she can have sour cream and cheese. It is very confusing to me and I see her at least once a week!
I am hoping that once my sister realizes how long we are going to be gone for she won't want my niece to go. It's tough because she is the only cousin who won't go, but there is no way my sister could go with us also. She needs to work and to be honest, I love my sister, but no way on this earth could I spend ten days on vacation with her!
We talked about maybe my mom coming with us, she lives with my sister and niece. But again I don't really want to travel with my mom, I love her, but I don't see her enjoying any part of the trip.
Any ideas to help my let my sister down gracefully? I know that we will be going back to WDW in the next two to three years and at that point I would be more than happy to take my neice, I just think that at five, she is to young to be away from home for that long.
I mentioned a few months ago to my sister that I wanted to take my five year old son to WDW in the spring. I misteakely opened my big mouth and said that we would consider taking her daughter, also five excatly two weeks younger than my son, with us.
My brother and sister in law knew we wanted to go to WDW this spring and they also wanted to go on a vacation/trip. They have two children, a boy, 10 and a girl, 7. We travel often with them, last year we all went on a Disney cruise, and in 2007 my DH and I went to WDW with them. We all travel pretty well together. I love to do all the planning and such and DH and SIL are very easy going and just go with the flow. Sometimes my brother will want to do something different and we work it out.
The trip we now have planned for April is driving from MI to AL (10 hours), for a two night stop to see my MIL, and then driving from AL to Orlando (10 hours) for five days, and then driving home over two days.
If we take my neice we will have to drive two cars, my mini van can barely fit the seven of us and there is no way we could squish in 8.
My brother doesn't mind taking his car and even though it would double our fuel cost, having the extra seats and trunk space would be nice. Plus the 10 year old can drive my DH crazy in about 10 seconds!
The biggest issue of why I am not sure about taking my niece is that she has a hard time spending the night away from her mom, let alone 10! Just last week she was going to spend the night at my SIL and my sister had to pick her up at 1:00 am because she was crying and wouldn't settle down. The last time she tried to spend the night with me I had to drive her home in the middle of the night also. She is one the sweetest, smartest little girls I know, and I love her to death. I know she loves me, and DS is her bestest friend, and she is DS bestest friend. But I worry about her having an awful time and ruining the trip for the rest of us. My sister also has a ton of wierd diet restrictions, like she can't eat yogurt or milk, but she can have sour cream and cheese. It is very confusing to me and I see her at least once a week!
I am hoping that once my sister realizes how long we are going to be gone for she won't want my niece to go. It's tough because she is the only cousin who won't go, but there is no way my sister could go with us also. She needs to work and to be honest, I love my sister, but no way on this earth could I spend ten days on vacation with her!
We talked about maybe my mom coming with us, she lives with my sister and niece. But again I don't really want to travel with my mom, I love her, but I don't see her enjoying any part of the trip.
Any ideas to help my let my sister down gracefully? I know that we will be going back to WDW in the next two to three years and at that point I would be more than happy to take my neice, I just think that at five, she is to young to be away from home for that long.