More than once Kody said that Janelle chose Christine over him. Christine wasn't even in the picture those times. She went to visit Maddie and Caleb (and others joined her there) for Thanksgiving, and Christine was in Utah. She's having a big Christmas with most of her kids, and Christine won't be there until after the holiday. She's choosing spending time with her kids over spending it with Kody's other family. Even if they were all one big happy family like they originally claimed, there were bound to be these shifts as the kids became adults. I wouldn't get too far by demanding that all my kids show up back "home" every holiday, and we all still like each other and are in the home where they grew up. Plus, Meri used to always host Christmas until Robyn got here Flagstaff house, and now Kody wants everyone at "his" house.