She would still have to go to register for the license in advance of the wedding so she would know what’s going on. The notary even asks if you are willingly entering the marriage. No way to hide it.
I was commenting on the first part of your response (“I would hope that 3 years later, this little detial has been taken care of.”) and pointing out that it has been 6 days, not 3 years. I know that you have to register in advance.