Linda67
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 18, 2009
Sorry about you being in such a difficult situation. If I were your DH, I would probably tell them something snotty like, "If I talk, I will say what I want to say. If you want something said, that's your responsibility." But I'm not your DH.
I'm not you either, but I think you probably need to let your DH work it out himself. You might talk to him and see if he wants you to help out, but I certainly wouldn't do it without him knowing what you were planning to do.
Luckily for us, with all the people around us who have died, we never held any kind of memorial services, so there wasn't the quandary of whether or not to speak. I hope that it all works out for the best.
I have to agree with this excellent advice
It's very hard when you see that someone you love is in an awkward and uncomfortable position but I do think you have to let him work this one out himself
Big hugs from England