mommysaurus
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2016
And to add - I know I'll be judged for the baby nurse, but she saved my life.
I had horrible PPD. I was terrified to be alone with the baby. Terrified.
The only way I could get through the day was to know at 7pm Mary Poppins was going to ring my doorbell, give me a hug and help me care for the most important thing in my world.
I would count down the minutes - it was like having a mix of a mom and security blanket here at night. Instead of staying up and staring at DD all night to make sure she was breathing, I could close my eyes and rest for a couple hours.
She helped me get organized, confidant and well. We did the bath together every night so I could learn. She showed me how to more effectively breastfeed (I breastfed for a month). I had been afraid I was going to drop her in the middle of the night because I kept nodding off during feedings and felt so much better knowing there was an experienced set of eyes and hands there to help.
She was worth every penny.
I am a better mom now because I had that help and guidance.
Being a mom is hard. No doubt about it. When you learn to be confident with your baby and trust your instincts it will be so much easier. Its been said a lot of times here, but if you don't feel your nanny is the right fit, get another...but realize it will never be a perfect fit. You need to figure out what is most and what you can let slide and go from there. It will get easier.