I've heard the CMs in there are super great and the she wont be able to be checked out without myself or her dad checking her out.
She will need one of you to check her out. And you'll set up a password. They don't let kids out willy nilly. Unless the parents have given permission for the child to self-sign-out. Which you won't.
I didn't think I would have to explain this further... ...Where there are people I don't know, have never met before or places I have never been before... like a cruise, in the ocean, miles from shore, with strangers . . .
You didn't? Hmm. Saying you never let them out of your sight in the first post, then saying that you actually mean *while at the fair or on vacation* are two very different things. Explaining such a statement makes a lot of sense, actually.
Others seem to understand it just fine. Thanks for the reply.
FWIW, I sort of made up what I thought you might be asking. But "how do I let go" makes no sense, and I don't know if your kids will enjoy the cruise or not, OR if you're planning on letting them hit the kids' club or not. I tried to answer based on what I figured you might be asking about, but I didn't actually get it.
Sort of related but not needed for the cruise (useful in places like WDW) but might give you a little peace of mind in other situations: use ID temporary tattoos for the younger kids. You can customize them online to have your name/number, you can also opt for a QR code where more info can be accessed. We've used them at WDW and other extremely busy places. Child knows where the tat is (we put it on arm where it was covered by a shirt sleeve), we showed them who to talk to if they are lost (super easy at WDW given their uniforms and obvious name tags ), and what to do. But this way the child does not need to remember a phone number, name etc (my kids are the ones who would be crying and not talking when upset). Anyway, last Dec I went to DL with 9 yo only and we got separated for like 3 min (felt like 30 min) and it happened soooo fast! She took one or two steps slightly on an angle (was distracted by something fun) and a sea of people was suddenly between us. Anyway, she didn't move from her spot (good girl for following my directions!) and I was able to find her.
So very unnecessary at Disney parks..
Teach the kids to stay in the area and find a CM with a nametag *behind a register*. Alternatively, as Gavin deBecker suggests (based on statistics of who the problematic people are, along with the idea that a child won't choose an adult who is creepy, but a creepy person might choose a child), teach the child to find a woman with children. If the child chooses the person, it's very unlikely it's a creep. And statistically women are "safer" than men are. It is what it is.
Disney has very good "lost parent" protocols, and while sometimes they are broken because the CM that finds the kid happens to have the magicband reader that gives ALL info AND the CM has a cellphone, but usually that combo is NOT going to happen. So it's really best for the child to know what to do, and then for YOU to know what to do.
Have one adult stay where you were. Have another adult go back. Have a picture of the child from that day (take a pic each morning) to show the CM. Please oh please stay calm. Let the CMs do their jobs. And don't expect a phone call, because finding a CM with a cell and permission to use it isn't that likely to happen.