Hi! If you have your heart set on the WL, the honeymoon room (it's a regular room with a jacuzzi tub, not a suite) is probably the best option. We stayed there for part of our WDW wedding/honeymoon trip, and it was fine, but the WL is not my favorite resort - too cowboy for me.
Since we were staying there, though, I'm glad that we stayed in the honeymoon room. There are only 4 rooms, and 2 of them face the MK (we had one of those and had an awesome view of the fireworks) and 2 of them face the woods. I probably wouldn't have paid the extra money if I had been stuck in one of the woods-facing ones. The concierge people were nice, but there isn't a real concierge lounge there like there is in other deluxe hotels. You just kind of sit along the walkway, at tables & chairs that are spread out.
The balconies are totally private, which is nice, but the rooms themselves are exactly like the regular rooms, except that they have this really long tub in them, which is also nice.
Since we got married there, it was worth it to us to stay concierge, b/c they shipped my bouquet, crinoline, etc. back home for us, so we didn't have to worry about lugging them around with us.
The fireworks view was great, though, and so was the privacy, and the concierge CM's were always so nice and cheerful.
Let me know if you have any specific questions.
Cheers!
Heather W