We'll also be learning some new songs or games. Any suggestions?
In our repertoire already is:
Make New Friends
The Brownie Smile Song
Hermie the Worm
My Name is Joe
You got me singing now
I've listed some of the favorites of that age group in my experience. These songs focus heavily on letter sounds, rhyming, repetition, silliness, and hand motions.
Percy the Pale Face Polar Bear
Gumdrop Song (I put the penny in the gum drop)
Hey Diddle Diddle
The Princess Pat
Bubblegum Song (My mom gave me a penny)
Boom Chicka Boom
It's not too early though to get them started on some of the more grown-up songs that teach scouting values.
Linger
On My Honor
Barges
Taps
On the Loose
One Tin Soldier
Magic
Happy Days
I learned songs growing up by listening. I would join in the chorus of the more grown-up songs and then the versus as I came to learn those too. I found it a lot more fun to learn how to "be good" through music instead of workbook lessons. These songs are great to transition into a calmer period...either at the end of the day or meeting.
As for the OP, one of the best things my troop leader required for my troop 5-9th grade was to require each mom to participate in some way. There was a lot of grumbling at first, but it was more due to parents being used to using GS as a drop-off activity combined with low self-esteem since several of the moms were factory workers, on food stamps, single moms, etc. We learned to see the value that every person can contribute while at the same time preventing our troop leaders from burning out from exhaustion. I can't recall any other time where I saw a college professor, world-wide business executive, factory line worker, SAHM, home-ec teacher, etc. work together on the same level respectfully for their older children.
I'm not a GS leader (yet), but I have a weak spot for my scouting days as a scout, camp counselor, volunteer, and assistant leader...and so had to lurk.
"She wears a G for generosity...she wears an I for interest too...she wears a R for real-life sportsmanship...she wears an L for loyalty!"....