I tell this story all the time now, but: last March, our extended family all went to Disney. It was work related, and only a couple of us are real fanatics, so I didn't really lean too hard on the planning aspect with ADRs and all that. We stayed at the GF. The first night we were there, my dad and stepmom and some of my adult siblings were hungry and decided, "We'll just eat at the hotel. Oh, look! A buffet! Won't that be nice!"
They were never so surprised in their entire lives, and I still laugh every time I think about the stepsisters flirting ceaselessly with my youngest brother. Mostly, Dad says, the characters gave them a wave and a hello and went on their way, but as the glasses piled up Drizella decided 'I'm going to hang out with you guys tonight!" and pulled up a chair.
I say, go ahead, if you're interested in a place! They'll take your cue.