He can get a button.The only time it has to be the actual birthdate is to be eligible for the free park admissionDoes it have to be your actual birthday one of the days of your trip to get the birthday button?... We changed the dates of our trip by a week and had already told DS we would be there on his birthday... now we are leaving 5 days before it. He has his heart set on celebrating his birthday at Disney!
Like I said previously there is no gurantee. We went for My nieces Bday and it was noted on our ressies. Other than a few well wishes, she got nothing.
I guess we'll order a cake. We really don't need a whole cake, but I would hate for DD not to have something for her bday.