My coordinator contacted me the other day to give me an update on plans. She mentioned something about her possibly not being there for the wedding and someone else being there. Is this common? Here I've been speaking with Lynn and I would hate to have someone else be there for the wedding. And aren't you expose to give a present or letter of appreciation to them? I don't think the sub-in should get that as they haven't done anything, so what do you do? After hearing some complaints on this board I'm hoping our wedding turns out ok.