Are you a leader, follower or a loner

[low-key]

loner

 

[ronandannette]

All three - depends what the situation calls for.

 

[low-key]

All three - depends what the situation calls for.

me too, but if you boiled it all down, loner would be left

 

[OhhBother]

Leader. Just wired that way.

 

[DeniseJH]

Definitely a loner.

 

[low-key]

Definitely a loner.

you know when I tped this out I made atypo, but I wonder if there wasnt some truth in it. I put I was a LOANER

 

[DeniseJH]

you know when I tped this out I made atypo, but I wonder if there wasnt some truth in it. I put I was a LOANER

Hmmmm, I could use a little cash...….

 

[disneychrista]

I tend to be a loner.

 

[amberpi]

Mostly loner, can pick up leader if needed.

 

[lifesavacation]

I’m only a leader with my immediate family. So I guess that makes me a loner because I’m definitely not a follower.

 

[low-key]

I’m only a leader with my immediate family. So I guess that makes me a loner because I’m definitely not a follower.

we look down on follower but I think of a follower as one of the gang, that will go along with what everyone wants to do, you need these people to have fun

 

[kimblebee]

Like @ronandannette said, it depends on the situation. I do tend to gravitate to leader though. That’s only happened in the last five years or so, before that I was quite happy to be a follower.

 

[MrsCobraBubbles]

Can I be a follower and a loner? I'd much rather take orders than give them, but I'm happiest by myself.

 

[low-key]

but I'm happiest by myself.

same here, but like to do stuff with people also, but I need some alone time everyday

 

[dotfurio]

I'm a loner, but if a leader is needed and no one steps up I tend to.

 

[low-key]

I'm a loner, but if a leader is needed and no one steps up I tend to.

when you get together with your girl friends , who makes the plans, thats the leader

 

[dotfurio]

when you get together with your girl friends , who makes the plans, thats the leader

Lol - that's the loner part - I rarely get together with friends. I have 2 friends I hang out with separately. But I guess they usually suggest the outing so that makes them the leader. However, I decide what DH and I do when we go out

 

[superme80]

Growing up I was a total follower. Now I don't have many friends, so I am a loner. I am only a leader when it comes to my kids.

 

[Jaspers]

I don't like to lead but I don't exactly enjoy being a follower either. I just like doing things my own way so I think that makes me a loner.

 

[ronandannette]

we look down on follower but I think of a follower as one of the gang, that will go along with what everyone wants to do, you need these people to have fun

Again, you come out of left field to surprise me with your insight. A few other words that describe this kind of person are easygoing, amiable and flexible. To me, those are all really, really good qualities.