I cannot believe what you just said? I do take offence. Let's be clear, these people who commit these crimes are terrible people, just ask their victims and, especially concerning pedophiles, they have no concept that what they are doing is wrong, where rapists and abusive men (and women) are fully aware of their actions and love the feeling of control because that is what their motive is, pedophiles are sexually attracted to children and while they cannot help their actions they cannot be condoned either. No amount of sitting down and having a frank conversation will change that.