jaineparr
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- May 7, 2008
I was trying not to get too involved in pre-trip planning. I mean, I'd talked to the Concierge at AKL and given them my wish list, but other than that bit of planning, I'd tried to keep my excitement to a minimum.
I'd planned for four big meals, a Safari to take pictures of the animals and Cirque. Other than that, we wanted to hang out and play at the parks a bit. Doesn't that sound like a pretty relaxed trip? Usually when we head to Florida, it becomes a traveling circus, what with catching up with family and friends and all the scheduling havoc that creates. The last two trips started with just the two of us and ended up with six or eight folks to co-ordinate. I felt like a cat herder at times. This trip is just the two of us and it is going to stay that way.
The home planning has just started. If I get it right, my DH will have no idea how much work has gone into the trip. We will leave breakfast and wander over to a show that will be just starting and isn't that 'lucky timing'? Not really, it's fine tuning a trip plan to make it not feel like a trip plan. I'm the planner and the hyper one. I can commando tour the parks in a heartbeat. But, DH does not like that at all. He'll dig in his heels and refuse to march another step to the drummer he thinks is in my head.
But DH loves the things that I plan. I simply can't tell him that I've got lots of things scheduled. If I say that I've planned for us to have breakfast at a certain location at a particular time, he's fine with it. I don't mention that I know when we leave breakfast, we will walk in a specific direction and take in thus and such show. When we leave the show, we meander over in a different direction and stop to get him a favorite snack. Then over that-a-way for a roller coaster and then a brief pause for some pictures. What do you know? It's just the right time for us to catch a parade and here we are at an ideal spot for viewing it with cameras handy.
Does he know that I've planned and timed the entire afternoon for us to be in just the right spot for wonderful things to happen right in front of our noses? Nope. And as long as I'm not frantically checking schedules and maps, he'll never know. It's part of the Magic.
I'd planned for four big meals, a Safari to take pictures of the animals and Cirque. Other than that, we wanted to hang out and play at the parks a bit. Doesn't that sound like a pretty relaxed trip? Usually when we head to Florida, it becomes a traveling circus, what with catching up with family and friends and all the scheduling havoc that creates. The last two trips started with just the two of us and ended up with six or eight folks to co-ordinate. I felt like a cat herder at times. This trip is just the two of us and it is going to stay that way.
The home planning has just started. If I get it right, my DH will have no idea how much work has gone into the trip. We will leave breakfast and wander over to a show that will be just starting and isn't that 'lucky timing'? Not really, it's fine tuning a trip plan to make it not feel like a trip plan. I'm the planner and the hyper one. I can commando tour the parks in a heartbeat. But, DH does not like that at all. He'll dig in his heels and refuse to march another step to the drummer he thinks is in my head.
But DH loves the things that I plan. I simply can't tell him that I've got lots of things scheduled. If I say that I've planned for us to have breakfast at a certain location at a particular time, he's fine with it. I don't mention that I know when we leave breakfast, we will walk in a specific direction and take in thus and such show. When we leave the show, we meander over in a different direction and stop to get him a favorite snack. Then over that-a-way for a roller coaster and then a brief pause for some pictures. What do you know? It's just the right time for us to catch a parade and here we are at an ideal spot for viewing it with cameras handy.
Does he know that I've planned and timed the entire afternoon for us to be in just the right spot for wonderful things to happen right in front of our noses? Nope. And as long as I'm not frantically checking schedules and maps, he'll never know. It's part of the Magic.