shawthorne44
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- Feb 12, 2021
OP, could you update us with what you decide?
This was my takeaway. Let's be honest, no one needs to come to a discussion board to solve this kind of problem.
I'm jealous of how well some of you sleep. I learned my lesson regarding sleeping arrangements. People who snore or who are just loud in general led to a couple trips where I was so sleep deprived I was miserable. I have turned down trips where the accommodations offered just wouldn't work for me.
I wonder if the OP will come to the same realization that this situation is difficult. It's been 2 years since she's been to the house. Her kids have grown a lot since then. I'm sure the kids and cousins are all super thrilled for the vacation, which means a lot. But I suspect it will be clear, once they're there, that this family has outgrown the current sleeping arrangements. Hopefully while she's there, the OP can scope out other possibilities for future trip--larger house, nearby condo, something. Her kids won't be getting smaller. Growing up, my kids always vacationed with their cousins, and it was a huge pat of childhood for them, so I hope the OP can find a workable solution for the longer term.
I would not put my family in that situation for two weeks. My DH probably would just say no way even for a few days. Get a hotel room nearby and adults and 6YO sleep there. If you can't make that work, honestly, I'd consider not going or only going for a few days.
No kidding! OP I don't have any great ideas, but I see you want to spend time with your family and I hope you can find a way to make it all work out and have a wonderful time! <3But this is not what the OP asked. She asked for help...this is not helpful with everyone saying how miserable they would be.