Well, I've been away for a bit. Time to catch up some:
The good/great news - I finally got everything finished with the fiasco of the timeshare company. Got everything refunded (except $49 required 'owner explanation reservation'). I'm still kind of laughing about it, because I signed the final paperwork in November - which stated that everything would be refunded within 30 days of their receipt of the paperwork. They acknowledged receipt on Dec 5, but did not get the final refunds done until Jan 9 (5 days late). Does this mean that they were in violation of yet another contract with me?
The mediocre news - I decided to opt for a debt management/negotiation plan. All of my credit card debt is being transferred to this, and will pay off in about 4 years, for roughly 60% of what the balance. There is a part of me that feels like a loser for not paying everything, but considering how much was accumulated from interest I don't feel too bad overall. This will leave me with a $525 payment for 48 months (which is about $300 less than I was paying on the cards), 1 credit card that was my "absolute emergency" card that had a $0 balance, and my house and car payments. So, I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, just not quite the way I was expecting to get there.
The bad news - my dad has been in bad health for a few years now, and back in August was diagnosed with a form of leukemia. He went through a couple of rounds of chemo, and seemed to be doing a lot better. All of the "bad cells" they looked for were gone. So, we celebrated Christmas and he was doing about the same as he had been before the leukemia diagnosis. On December 30, he was unable to walk - even assisted with a walker and people to help support him. We got a hospital bed for him to stay in, but by Jan 2 he was in and out of a comatose state (completely non-responsive most of the time, confused if he did respond, and unable to speak clearly). I alerted work and took off Jan 4-6 to go back home and stay with him. My other sisters also came in the night of Jan 4th. He passed away about midnight on Jan 5th, but only after all of the family was there to hold his hand and let him know that we loved him and knew he loved us. It has been a major roller-coaster of a week, and doesn't look to really end in the near future. He and mom had pre-arranged most of the funeral, but there are still lots of other loose ends that have to be taken care of.
In light of how the year started, I seriously hope that this year improves. But I also don't know how regular I will be in posting for a while. Remember me, and know that even if I don't post, I do read to stay current on how everyone else is doing. There are times when just knowing that all the people here are so friendly and helpful is all that helps me get through the day.