We are doing Universal for 5 days, then the cruise, then a week offsite somewhere to do Disney, LEGOLAND, Discovery Cove, and whatever else my kids decide they want to add to the list. I need to keep them off of youtube (or maybe it is me that needs to stay off message boards)! This will be my kids first trip out of Hawaii, and my husband's and my first trip to Disney. Very excited! The most frustrating part is waiting for the window to book airfare and hotels have opened.
I'm sure I'll have millions of questions as time goes by. I've been a lurker on disboards for a long time now, and I am very happy to finally have a reason to post something!
I have heard that Aulani is fantastic. Very expensive, but a lot of fun. That is on my list of things to do someday. If I lived on Oahu, I would go visit often, I believe a lot of local people have meals there so that they can soak in the ambiance without having to pay for a room. I think every couple of years Disney does a cruise to Hawaii - you could hop on that and make it a big adventure!