When I graduated college 7 years ago my parents took me out to a nice dinner and gave me $100. My dad did continue to pay my car and medical insurance for a few months while I got started. That was the only bill they ever paid for me during college. My parents were making about $100K at this time so it wasn't really the money. It was more that they didn't feel kids should be rewarded for doing what was expected. I was always a little resentful of that attitude compared to my friends' parents who were much more lavish, like I am seeing here. But, my parents treated my younger sisters much differently and neither of them is especially stable, so I guess in the long run, I'd rather get a small gift and be self sufficient!