use pull ups or not?

[kimba]

My DD is turning 3 next month and has been basically potty trained since last summer. Lately though she has been having a lot of accidents at home. She seems to do fine at her preschool and when she is at other places but we can go through 3-4 changes of clothes(sometimes more) at home a day. It seems to get really bad later in the day when she is tired.

I am considering putting pull ups on her(she wears them at night) at the parks but I am really reluctant to do this. I don't want her to get in that mindset and have further set backs. At the same time I am concerned about being in line (we go next week) and having to run off to a potty and lose our spot. Sometimes it is kind of hard to get out of line, or off a ride, or out of a show.

Does anyone have any advice on this issue?
Thanks.

 

[Kate-n-sam]

to bring a couple of pull ups with you to the park. if she has an accident, then put them on her for the remainder of the day. Doesn't mean she can't use the potty, just an accident proofer. I was in the same boat with my DD when she was 2, but she had only been trained for a few weeks when we went to WDW, so I had her wear pullups for the week. she had no problem going back to underwear when we were home. Good Luck!

 

[Doodlebug939]

My daughter was in the same position during our November trip. And she did just fine without the pull ups. For her it would have been a setback because she feels like a big girl. I just made a point to take her to the bathroom often. Although now I did see the princess pull ups and they might have worked but I dont know. When any of us had to use the restroom then we all went to the restroom. At first she was like I dont have to go but when all of us went then if just became normal. She like the restrooms that had the sink in with the potty because she could wash her hands while I used the restroom. (Handicaped stall)

I wish you the best what ever you choose. There is nothing like seeing disney through the eyes of your child!!!

 

[4greatboys]

In cases like that where I didnt want to take the chance of an accident happening I put pull ups over my ds underwear. He know he is not supposed to go potty in his underwear so I think it makes them a tad more aware of needing to go potty. it worked pretty good, the only time he ever had an accident in underwear and pull ups is when he drank to much milk before going to bed.

 

[tink2]

I've been in this situation at WDW twice- when DD was 2 1/2 and DS was 2 1/2. Both times the child was already in underwear and not having many accidents- but some when they were tired. I used pull ups the entire trip on both trips. I just really talked them up. I got the Disney ones- with Buzz and Minnie. We talked about how you were to only go to the bathroom in the potty- not in your pull up. We just really asked if they had to go a lot- especially the first day. Neither child went backwards from this. Actually, they never wet their pull up either. I was like you- afraid of accidents and didn't want to deal with taking 3 or four changes of clothes at WDW- and not to mention waiting in lines.
Anyway, good luck with your decision. You know your child- just do what you think is best and will work best for her!

 

[CEDmom]

Originally posted by 4greatboys
In cases like that where I didnt want to take the chance of an accident happening I put pull ups over my ds underwear. He know he is not supposed to go potty in his underwear so I think it makes them a tad more aware of needing to go potty. it worked pretty good, the only time he ever had an accident in underwear and pull ups is when he drank to much milk before going to bed.

We did this with DD on a few trips after she had been potty trained. She was great about telling us she had to go and not just going in her underpants and pullup. A few times she couldn't hold it completely and was a little wet but it's much easier just putting on dry underwear then a complete outfit and trying to clean up a stroller. The only time she had complete accidents was when she fell asleep.

 

[tjmw2727]

I would seriously consider using the pull ups - esp if she continues to have accidents closer to the trip. In addition to the logistics of toting around extra stuff my girls would have been very embarrassed if they had an accident at WDW.

There is no reason she can't continue to train and strive to keep the pull up dry but why add a stress to a vacation? I guess I would also make sure she understands this isn't a punishment or a 'baby thing" I like the idea of the undies inside the pull up maybe a fresh new pack of disney princess undies will help?

Just as a word of encouragement although both my girls trained very easily but both did have a period of regression after I thought we were done. So don't worry this is normal. Although if it dosen't turn around you may want to do a quick check to make sure she dosen't have a UTI. Once my girls were trained the only time they had trouble was when they got an infection. Just FYI and of course I hope its just normal training stuff.

TJ

 

[Dodge34]

I planned on using Diapers on both of my boys 6 and 9 yrs old to avoid yucky overcrowded restrooms at Disney, I heard about using Pull-Ups, both of my son's want them, but how could we make sure they are not going to leak. I know Pull-Ups would be easy for both of them (they could change themselves when needed) But for the nightime (both are heavy bedwetters and wear diapers at night) I don't know if I should bring Mattress cover for the bed.

Next question, is there any private place where they could change their Pull-Ups and throw them in the trash without being seen (I don't want to embarass them) (I will use protective underwear myself (Tena) to avoid the restrooms (I do that everytime I have to go out cause I hate public restrooms) Anyone else use diapers or Pull-Ups to avoid accidents and embarassment on Pre-teens kids, (over 5 yrs old) ???

 

[sarahsmom73]

Our DD 2.5 is just about potty trained with the exceptions of nap and night... We decided to do the pull ups not knowing what to expect.. She had 1 accident (not her fault) I was riding TOT and DH paniced...She even stayed dty during all naps and nights and on the plane!!! WHOO HOO!!!!

 

[SueM in MN]

Originally posted by Doodlebug939
She like the restrooms that had the sink in with the potty because she could wash her hands while I used the restroom. (Handicaped stall)

Please keep in mind when you use these stalls or the Companion Restrooms, that they are the only stall in the whole restroom or part of the park that some people can use (a person who needs their wheelchair in the stall with them or an an adult or older child who needs a helper in the stall with them). If you choose to use them, please keep that in mind and make use of the stall as quickly as possible.
I'm not saying those stalls are for the exclusive use of people with disabilities and I'm not one to judge why someone has chosen to use it, since they might have invisible factors. Just that it's very frustrating to overhear a conversation between the mom and child using the only stall you can use when there are 10 or 12 empty stalls. (An actual conversation I overheard at AK: "Why do they have the bars in here?" "So people who can't stand can use them to get up.""Why is there a hook so low on the door?" "So people who are sitting in wheelchairs can hang their coats up""Why is there a sink in here and not just a potty?""So people with wheelchairs can use it easier""If this is for wheelchair people how come we're using it?""Because it's nice and big and has a sink inside"

 

[liznboys]

I'd definitely put her in pull ups. It will save you so much stress worrying about her having an accident. If she has an accident, you don't have to worry about changing clothes and dealing with an upset toddler. It's your vacation, just think of it as a vacation from potty training for your dd too. LOL!!! I'm sure when you get back home, you can go back to not using the pull ups and it will work out.

On our last trip my oldest ds was 3.5 and he had been potty trained for almost a full year by then. But, I still put him in pull ups on some days while at WDW. He never ended up needing them, but it just gave ME the peace of mind that if by SOME chance he got caught up in all the excitement and forgot to tell me he needed to go, he'd have protection. It was great!

 

[sarahsmom73]

I agree with the peace of mind.... That was nice!

 

[Memaw2Wm]

Originally posted by Dodge34
I planned on using Diapers on both of my boys 6 and 9 yrs old to avoid yucky overcrowded restrooms at Disney, I heard about using Pull-Ups, both of my son's want them, but how could we make sure they are not going to leak. I know Pull-Ups would be easy for both of them (they could change themselves when needed) But for the nightime (both are heavy bedwetters and wear diapers at night) I don't know if I should bring Mattress cover for the bed.

Next question, is there any private place where they could change their Pull-Ups and throw them in the trash without being seen (I don't want to embarass them) (I will use protective underwear myself (Tena) to avoid the restrooms (I do that everytime I have to go out cause I hate public restrooms) Anyone else use diapers or Pull-Ups to avoid accidents and embarassment on Pre-teens kids, (over 5 yrs old) ???

Sorry, I think putting 6 and 9 y.o. boys in diapers to avoid using the bathrooms in Disney is a bit over the top. Even my daughter who is a HUGE "germ-freak" finds the bathrooms in the parks clean and acceptable.

If I felt this strongly about using public restrooms, I think I would stay home rather than embarass my children by forcing them to wear diapers and then expect them to change them/throw away in a "private" place, which I'm assuming is not in one of the restroom. Nor would I want to stumble across your boys trying to change their diapers/pull ups in the park. JMHO

If your boys have accidents at night I would definitely bring plastic mattress protectors to put on their beds under the sheets. The 6 y.o. will probably be fine in a large/extra large Pull-Up at night, for the 9 y.o. I would purchase "Good Nights" which are designed for older children.

 

[phamton]

Originally posted by Dodge34

I planned on using Diapers on both of my boys 6 and 9 yrs old to avoid yucky overcrowded restrooms at Disney. (I will use protective underwear myself (Tena) to avoid the restrooms

I think Dodge34 is just trying to make a point in a rather sarcastic way.

 

[Dodge34]

I tried GoodNites but Shawn (9yrs old) is pretty small for his age (50lb) so they are too big, and the new ones GoodNites Trim Fit, will be better called (WetNites, they don't offer any protection anymore) I won't embarass my boys, they will wear baggy clothes over their Pull-Ups, no one needs to know they wear them. And they will bring a backpack when changing in the bathroom stalls, and put the used one in a plastic bag, then in the backpack, we will ensure they are throwed in the trash, discreetly.

 

[phamton]

Originally posted by Dodge34
And they will bring a backpack when changing in the bathroom stalls

I thought you wanted to avoid going in the bathroom stalls which are reeking with public germs.

 

[marlasmom]

If the 6 year old and 9 year old have regular or frequent accidents I would get them to a doctor quickly. They (the 9 year old especially) is approaching the age where kids have sleepovers, boy scout camp, school trips, etc. They would be horribly embarrassed - not to say what the psychological damage could be.

 

[my3kids]

dodge34: This is a joke, right? If not, thanks ever so much for allowing your children to poop in their pants and sit on the Rockin' Roller coaster seat so my children can come sit in your children's germs next. How thoughtful!

If the thought of public restrooms bothers you that much, to the point of going in your pants instead, then you need to seek help. If your 9 year old allows you to put him into diapers, then he needs help too.

 

[Mskanga]

Originally posted by my3kids
dodge34: This is a joke, right? If not, thanks ever so much for allowing your children to poop in their pants and sit on the Rockin' Roller coaster seat so my children can come sit in your children's germs next. How thoughtful!

If the thought of public restrooms bothers you that much, to the point of going in your pants instead, then you need to seek help. If your 9 year old allows you to put him into diapers, then he needs help too.

Thank you. That's exactly how I feel. If public restrooms bother you so much , it's time to stay home.

 

[6_Time_Momma]

Originally posted by phamton
Originally posted by Dodge34


I think Dodge34 is just trying to make a point in a rather sarcastic way.

Hmmm.......I think I missed the point. Exactly what might it be?