Okay, are you from CA???
What kind of dressing do you prefer?
I am from the South... We have always had a nice basic southern dressing, which is what Cracker Barrels serve.
Before I give you any recipe, here are the tips that will get you the right texture (not dry.. not soupy) dressing that you want. No matter which type of recipe you choose.
As in most cooking, the dry ingredients are separate from the wet, until gently folded together... You will have a big bowl of cubed bread and/or cornbread... and then you will have your stock with your veggies/fruit/etc.
When you combine them, pour in enough of the stock/liquid to make sure that they are all very wet and moistened. Then, if you think you may have gotten the mixture too wet/soupy, simply place into a strainer/colander and let the excess liquid drip thru. This will get you the consistency you want.
When you do combine the ingredients, again, gently 'fold' together... Do not over-work. You don't want to end up with mush or dough or batter... You want moistened bread/cornbread cubes. No need to use your hands!!!!
Okay, for your veggies/fruit/etc. You can simmer them in some broth in a pot.... Just until they begin to soften up. I don't like them to be complete mush. I find this to be a better outcome than sauteing in a skillet.
Dice up your bread/cornbread... If you want to have the cubed breadcrumbs that will keep a bit of that shape and texture, I think you can very lightly bake/toast them in a med to med-hot oven...
If you are not going to have natural turkey stock, from roasting your turkey... I use this...
http://www.swansonbroth.com/ourproducts.aspx#stock
Here is my dressing...
1. One cast iron skillet of fresh cornbread, cooled and diced.
2. A few slices of bread - zapped into breadcrumbs in my blender.
3. Turkey (or Chicken) Stock.
4. Fresh cut onion and celery. (diced into nice sized chunks.. not too chunky, but not finely diced or minced)
5. Salt, if needed.... Remember if your broth is salty, this may do it.. Proceed with caution and salt to-taste.
6. I season, to taste, with this.... I get it at my Kroger.
Spice Islands Gourmet Blend Poultry Seasoning.
http://www.spiceislands.com/Spices/SpiceDetails.aspx?Id=9dd63843-0579-4cd2-bad9-3b638a23d7e2
I find it SO, SO, much better than the usual poultry seasonings, like McCormick.... I mean, a LOT better. The others seem like they are just half black pepper.
If you use a seasoning that does have black pepper, you will not need to add any... With the seasoning above... I will add a dash or two of pepper.
Just cook your veggies/fruit in a couple cups of stock...
Add your seasonings when they are done.
Fold this together with prepared dry bread/cornbread.
Bake and enjoy!