So, DW is the real B&tB fan(atic), so the BOG is more for her than anyone else, so ultimately, I'm going to leave this decision up to her. DD has never done Disney, so she'll be thrilled with anything we end up doing (and let's be honest, that's going to the case with all of us won't it?).
Personally, I'm not a big parade person (or a standing-around-in-the-heat-when-I-can-help-it person), and I am an Eat-All-The-Things person, so even a sub-par food experience holds more appeal to me than a parade.
And I kinda like the thematic notion of doing Enchanted Tales with Belle, than wandering over to Gaston's Tavern and being entertained by Gaston while pre-gaming on some nosh there before heading over to Be Our Guest.
My takeaway from responses thus far seems to be that those that would choose one over the other would choose the parade, but those who don't like to choose think that, if I
really wanted to I could
probably squeeze them both in.
AND we'll be around for
MNSSHP, so we won't be missing ALL the parades, so there's that too (although I'm sure I'm comparing apples to oranges here).