Thanks!
I was just informed earlier by my DS and DD that Pleakley is a boy, so I was a little confused.
My DD said why don't you ask the Disboards!
**Just found this too, just in case anyone else was wondering. I know you all are just up nights wondering about this!
Attentive viewers may notice Pleakley consistently dresses in women's clothing even while relaxing at home, and dressing in full drag while out among the humans. He is frequently referred to as Lilo's "aunt" by her friends. In particular, during the Stitch movie, it is implied Pleakley has actually bought a girdle despite his unconvincing denial, since it is technically underwear and thus useless for his normal disguise. He wrote his thesis on Earth sports, which was full of errors and he obviously got a bad grade on, and was the best student in his sewing class (which he says he took only as an elective; "It was that or woodshop.") Also, his actual first name is Wendy, which on his planet means "brave warrior".
In the television series, he had a brief mock engagement with Nani to placate his pushy visiting mother. In this same episode he also had a mock engagement to Jumba. Pleakely's mother is concerned that he hasn't found "the right girl" and that he is not married. Pleakley feels he must pretend to be married for his mother to approve and accept him. When his family arrives on Earth for the mock wedding of Nani and Pleakley, he reveals that he is happy being who he is, which includes being unmarried. After that his family accepts him and loves him for who he is.