3 Month Anniversary( Dating)?

[Stitch's O'hana]

I am new at this and needed some advice on what to do. I have been going out with this guy for 3 months( well at the end of this month it will be 3 months), anyway I was wondering what people do for a 3 month dating anniversary? Or do people not do anything for a 3 month dating anniversary? I have not dated anyone for this long, so I have no idea.

 

[chisnpeke]

You don't have to do anything too fancy. Just go out to eat, just like a casual restaurant (not McDonald's, but maybe like O'Charley's or TGI Friday's or Applebees) something like that. Hope this helps!

 

[lg3]

ITA - For a 3 month dating anniversary that really isn't an anniversary at all - perhaps 6 months? Just go on a regular date and have good time.

 

[BethR]

ITA - For a 3 month dating anniversary that really isn't an anniversary at all - perhaps 6 months? Just go on a regular date and have good time.

 

[Tinijocaro]

I'll be honest here, I think that you can really scare a guy off unless you are 100% certain that he's as into you as you are into him. The whole keeping track thing can scare a guy off. Of course, you know better than I do what your relationship is. I don't think 3 months is anything to celebrate. In high school, 3 months is a big deal, after that , not much.

 

[Disney Doll]

If you have graduated from high school, I would recommend you not mention anything about a 3 month dating anniversary.

 

[Stitch's O'hana]

Thanks everyone! Now I know just to wait until 6 months, before I say anything. Just to be on the safe side! Don't want to scary him off, although I showed him all my Disney things and told him I how crazy I am about Disney and it did not scary him off! LOL

 

[BuffettFan]

If you have graduated from high school, I would recommend you not mention anything about a 3 month dating anniversary.

I agree !!
Monthly "anniversaries" are celebrated only by teenagers.

 

[Tinijocaro]

BTW, congratulations on 3 months together with your boyfriend!!

 

[PaulaSue]

If you have graduated from high school, I would recommend you not mention anything about a 3 month dating anniversary.

Ditto, or 6 or 9 months...

 

[Aimeedyan]

Nah, most adults don't celebrate 3 month. 6 month might be worth a mention and a dinner out, though!

Congrats on your longest relationship - I wish you many more months of happiness with him!

 

[I'mNoPrince]

3 months are only a problem when it applies to a 90 day warranty.

Other then that just have fun .

 

[Stacerita]

3 months are only a problem when it applies to a 90 day warranty.

Other then that just have fun .

DBF and I awknowledge every month we are together. He sort of started it. Usually its just a card or something like that. He has gotten me flowers in the past, or Ive gotten him the candy he likes. But we both know that we will "celebrate" that day. We are an odd couple though. We went on a weekend trip for our 3 month. But then again, Ive known him for half my life before we started dating.

Try to feel out what the new BF is wanting to do that day and see. I'd just go out to dinner and enjoy. Don't put pressure on anything though. Relax and enjoy. If you aren't sure how he is feeling, keeping track might spook him.

 

[bumbershoot]

Well, my DH always liked to celebrate monthiversaries, but then, we were engaged before we were dating for 4 months. So he's a *bit* of a romantic. (and then we went and had a LONG engagement and nearly ruined the whole thing, ugh)

If HE mentions something about it, go with it. But if not, just smile to yourself.

Congrats on 3 months!

 

[epcotfan]

I've never done anything at a 3 month mark. Personally, I think it is too soon to celebrate stuff like that. JHMO. I know some guys are freaked when the girl starts counting how many days/months they've been together.
I sincerely wish you the best and that your relationship continues to thrive.

 

[johnsontrio]

When DH and I started dating I decided I was going to hang out with him as long as we were having fun. That attitude helped take the pressure off. Sometimes it helps to not have to talk about a relationship or define it to other people before you really figure out where it is going.

Now we are married 17 years in December. When people ask how we are doing I tell them, "We are doing great, we still like each other." We don't celebrate the Hallmark Holidays or even make a big fuss about birthdays and anniversaries,instead we make effort to do nice things for each frequently. He is my best friend.

Enjoy the time you spend with him and don't get caught up in what society tells you is important. Let the two of you decide what makes your relationship special. JMHO, Amy

 

[Stitch's O'hana]

Thanks everyone for all the good advice!

 

[ducklite]

If I had made a big deal about a three month dating anniversary with DH, he would ahve gone running for the hills. Talk about a way of scaring a guy off.

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I would wait for the 1 year mark.

 

[LindsayDunn228]

Sorry, but I think celebrating a 3-month anniversary is a little sad outside of high school. Don't freak the guy out. Save the celebration for your 1-year annivesary.