Seems like not too long ago for me. Where we live is very rural, so nothing nearby to walk to, nor transportation, except parents.
It was a group thing here, and we parents took turn driving. One or two would take them to mall, they would eat, hang out, go to a movie, and come home by one or two parents, depending on how many kids there were. They also had (still have
) co-ed
adult supervised sleep overs. (I am a light sleeper). Two of the kids (one of them mine) have wii's, so it's rock band, guitar hero, and DDR nights/competitions and a movie rental. Girls sleep in her bedroom, boys are all over my living room. They're all good kids (honor roll!), us parents get along, and they just hang out together. They all live many miles and many farms apart, so there is no easy way to walk/ride bike to each others houses.
I believe its a comfort thing of knowing your DD and her friends, and learning to trust that she'll make the right choices without you around, too.
My DD 15 is now at that age where some of her friends are driving, and some have older brothers and sisters who drive, and wants to go with them. Now, that, I am having trouble dealing with
. I won't let her ride with someone I don't know, and I haven't cut the strings yet to let her ride with a teen driver.