Generally things do appear to take a long time to get done on the Disney end when it comes to contracts, bills, returned calls etc. This can be frustrating for those of us who are very detail oriented. However, I did find that things do get done on the Disney end! We didn't hear a thing about our contract until about a month after it was supposed to have arrived -- and our final bill didn't arrive until about 3 weeks before the wedding (final payment according to Disney is due 30days in advance). I wouldn't panic too much -- also you didn't mention when your wedding date will be. As long as you still have a few months to go, I wouldn't worry - everything will be fine. Switching sales managers is possible, however, if you're 8 months out and about to sign your contract, you generally won't be dealing with him/her anylonger anyway, so switching may in fact complicate your wedding plans. I would find out the name of your EM and have them (or more likely their assistant) track down any paperwork that you are missing. Also, just a heads-up -- after you sign the contract, as long as everything is in order, don't expect to hear much from Disney until you get your final bill (within 3-4 weeks before the wedding). I found that FTW takes so much of the footwork out of planning the wedding that I was almost paranoid at times about the details. In the end, all of my requests were noted, I double checked everything with my EM's assistant before sending payment and everything was perfect.
Don't worry -
Marne