DDC XXV: It’s a Special Holiday Episode of the DISDad’s Club

[jmwest]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

So sorry to hear this didn't work out. From what I've read on here from you and just now reading your wifes blog this sounds like it has been a very trying and confusing couple of weeks or even months. The fact that you even put yourselves out there is very admirable. I hope that you can find peace in the decision.

[Captain_Oblivious]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry to hear that, Chris. I know this has been in the works for a long time and you were excited about it. But if she doesn't want to be there, then it's the only possible outcome. I hope she'll be ok. And I know better days are ahead for you.

[Captain_Oblivious]

Originally Posted by IamTrike

Seems like there would be more red tape than this.

You're right. I need to give him several forms to fill out in triplicate.

[Goofy + 3]

Originally Posted by afwdwfan

What an interesting story. I'm sorry things didn't work out, but it seems she just doesn't want to be here for one reason or another. I guess if I think about it this way, I'd think it would be hard for any 14 year old to want to leave everything and everyone they know to move almost half way around the world. I pray for the best for her and your family.

Indeed. The girl is in a tough spot no matter what. While I think she made the wrong decision, it's her decision. On the bright side, there's still time to get my money back on Rosetta Stone! Considering I just dropped a sizable sum of $$ on a 10-day non-expiring parkhopper, I think I'll return it.

[FreezinRafiki]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry to hear that Chris. As others have said, it's got to be quite confusing for a 14 year old girl to visit another country and another family and grasp the fact that they want you to live with them and be your family. Something good will come from this, you just need to have a little faith.

Originally Posted by Captain_Oblivious

Sounds awesome! I'm making you an honorary state worker with that schedule.

Sweet! Do I get my own shovel to lean on?

Originally Posted by Captain_Oblivious

You're right. I need to give him several forms to fill out in triplicate.

I assume as an honorary state worker, there will be someone else I can pass this menial task on to, right?

[cj9200]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen...

Read your wife's blog and very sorry that it didn't happen. Your family's compassion and caring is admirable. I hope the best for her.

[JHMCARTY]

Hey all...

whats happening?

[RodBelding]

Originally Posted by IamTrike

Seems like there would be more red tape than this.

Nem, saw your meetup on facebook for the half; Not sure how many of us are doing the full, but let me know when you're in the bag drop area for the full if you want to meet up quick. What corral are you in?

[GoHerd1028]

Originally Posted by declansdad

Morning guys,

off today to spend Christmas with my parents.

I think you are either too late or super early!

[GoHerd1028]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Chris...I am so sorry to hear this!!! Those of us who have adopted know how the process is a roller coaster of emotions and we all fear the outcome that has come to be for you guys. Sure will be pryaing for you. God has a mighty plan in store for you...this heartbreak is going to prepare you in some way for what God has ahead!! Is adoption something you think you will attempt again?

[declansdad]

Originally Posted by GoHerd1028

I think you are either too late or super early!

That would be late.


It was a great day for the drive, highway was bare and the sun was shining.

Shortly after we got here we sent DS to his cousins for the night and now we are just relaxing after dinner. I'm sure there will be some card playing in our near future.

[GoHerd1028]

[QUOTE=mm1971;47065631]Good Morning Guys!


Felt well enough to go back to work today.for feeling better, because I'm at work. Hoping this thing is on it's way out. How are you feeling today Steve? Hopefully better.
QUOTE]

Pain and most swelling is gone. Just still have the firmness of the gland now. I will call them next week if it is still there or swells more. Wish it would go away.

[declansdad]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry to hear it didn't work out Chris.

[theduck619]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Chris, I am so sorry to hear this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[moose615]

Originally Posted by Goofy + 3

Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

I'm sorry to hear that Chris, we have all been praying everything works out, thoughts and prayers go out to your family, I know this must be hard