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Old 05-20-2008, 01:26 PM   #1
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Rob and Scott's Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding-TR Pg 92; Photo Update pg 133

Several people here on the Gay & Lesbian Forum have expressed an interest in what it's like to have a Disney Fairy Tale Wedding . . . er . . . Commitment Ceremony.

Well, we had our planning session and menu tasting with Disney yesterday, and thought I'd let you all know how it went.

For those of you who don't know how the process with DFTW works: You book your venues either a year or eight months in advance (depends on which locations you want), you put down a deposit and sign the contract. At that point, you're assigned a wedding planner. At the six-month mark, you set up a planning session with your wedding planner and sit down with the Disney folks and plan out all the details (Or as many as possible). The planning session can be done in person or over the phone. If you are able to do the planning session, it takes place in Franck's Wedding Studio and you get to do a cake tasting and a menu tasting.

That's what we did yesterday. The planning session and tastings.

Things went VERY well with our planning session yesterday. I'll go into detail and include pictures (food porn) in the next post.

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Old 05-20-2008, 01:44 PM   #2
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Okay, first off I have to say that I'm terribly impressed with how well Disney handles this process. They make it VERY easy, and as low-stress as it can possibly be. It helped that our wedding planner was a blast to deal with. She made it fun, and comfortable.

As for the fact that we're two gay men, you'd think that they deal with commitment ceremonies every day, all day long. They all acted like they were genuinely happy for us and honored to be a part of our big day. This goes a LONG way toward justifying the cost in our book.

We arrived (accompanied by my mom) at the wedding studio at a bit before our 9 am start time, and wandered around the room a little bit (along with other people there for planning sessions. I gotta say, one of those girls was SCARY tacky, but I digress).

They schedule 4 hours for the planning session. We were done in two. Apparently most people don't walk in with everything in lists and spreadsheets the way I did, because they were very impressed with our level of organization.

We walked through our vision for "our day" from beginning to end in as great of detail as we could. Where are we staying, where are we getting ready, are we going to see each other before the ceremony? How are we getting there? How are the guests getting there? How is everyone getting to the reception? What order do things happen at the reception? Details about photography, etc. It was a lot of fun, and having done our research ahead of time really paid off. We breezed through the questions with answers to most of the questions.

Once that was done they brought out the "cake tray" with eight cake flavors and 10 filling flavors for us to try. Can I just say I want someone to bring me a "cake tray" every day. It was yummy! And mixing and matching the flavors was very fun. Here's what it looks like.



Next, the floral event planner who works with DFTW arrived, just as we were deciding on cakes. She was a real hoot, and I was kind of bummed that we really won't be working with her that much. We're just doing 6 boutonnieres and 3 corsages. The centerpieces we're using are non-floral and do double duty as centerpiece and wedding favor, so we didn't need any flowers for the tables. We're not getting flowers on the cake because we thought it looked too girly, and the Atlantic Dance Hall (where the reception is) doesn't need any additional decorations.

Up next: We're done early, how do we kill three hours before our menu tasting at the Boardwalk?
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Old 05-20-2008, 01:46 PM   #3
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Okay, so we were done with the planning session shortly after 11am. Our tasting at the Boardwalk was at 2:30. What to do, what to do?

We went home and took a nap, of course!

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I have been thinking you needed to be "Committed."
I didn't know they served cake for that in Fla.
Save me a piece will ya?

Best of luck with all the - stuff.

FYI - I'm a chocolate and Raspberry fan.
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Old 05-20-2008, 02:06 PM   #5
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Feeling refreshed by a nap. We made our way the the Boardwalk resort for the menu tasting. After a bit of confusion on our part of where to meet our wedding planner, we were ushered into the kitchen of the Boardwalk convention center, where a banquet table was set for with three place settings and multiple napkins (so we could pick which napkin fold we wanted for the recepton.) We were introduced to the two young gentlemen who would be conducting our tasting. Their names were Jason and Damon, and I'm guessing that they're sous chefs at the Boardwalk, but I'm not sure if that's the case or not. It doesn't matter, they were very professional and extremely helpful throughout the tasting. (and kind of cute, to boot). We also met the Catering manager for the Boardwalk and were attended by Jan, who is one of the banquet servers. Truly, it was service fit for a king, or in our case, a couple of queens.

The first thing we tasted were the appetizers we'd chosen: A Maryland Style Crabcake with remolade sauce and a carmelized onion tartlet. They were both delicious, and I licked my fingers. I did manage to keep from licking the plate, however. I do have SOME manners. (And my mother was sitting next to me.)



Next we tried the salad of mixed greens with three different dressings: Lowfat Zinfandel Vinaigrette, Bacon Ranch, and Garlic Caesar. I'm going to have a really difficult time chosing one when we eat at our reception. Once again I was licking my fingers. No pictures of the dressings I'm afraid, but here's the salad:



Up next was the second salad: a tomato, cucumber, and red onion salad in an herb vinaigrette. It was also very tasty, but I'm running out of adjectives to describe how wonderful the food was.



Up next the entree selections, and I drool some more . . .

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Old 05-20-2008, 02:10 PM   #6
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Best of luck with all the - stuff.

FYI - I'm a chocolate and Raspberry fan.
Scott and my mom both raved about the raspberry mousse. But, since I'm allergic to raspberries, we're not having it anywhere near our cake. (or anything else for that matter)

But thanks for the well wishes!

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Geesh, All of a sudden I'm hungry!

Get to the meat and potatoes would ya!
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you just cracked me up on that one! Make sure you cover what they arrange for DJ services at the reception. I'm a mobile DJ and have thought about trying to get into their wedding DJ area when I move down there
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Old 05-20-2008, 02:29 PM   #9
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And now the main course.

We're having a buffet at the reception (that's all they do at the Atlantic Dance Hall), so we'd tried to create a menu that would appeal to a lot of people. We knew that we wanted a roast beef carving station with rolls, horsradish, herbed mayo, fancy mustard, etc. We also decided on tri-color cheese torellini, parmesan crusted chicken with a tomato sauce on either the pasta or the chicken, depending on how they tasted, and an alfredo or cream sauce on one as well. We figured that way we'd have a balance of flavors. One tomato sauce, and one cream sauce. Nice contrast. We'd make that decision at the tasting. Well at the tasting the chefs threw us a curve ball. Instead of having tortellini with one of two sauces, they offered us a pasta action station with the torellini in alfredo and penne in tomato sauce. For no additional cost. Score! We loved this idea.

Once we had both of the sauces allocated for pasta, though; we needed to figure out what kind of sauce we wanted for the chicken. (A chicken breast that was so delicious that it could be served without a sauce in my opinion. And very moist despite having spent time in the "hot box" in the kitchen) So they had us taste a mushroom cream sauce and a marinara sauce. In addition to that though, they spoke to us and offered to whip up a Limoncello Buer Blanc sauce. We said we'd give that a try. OH. MY. GOD. That sauce was amazing!

So here's what we tried. Peppercorn Beef Tenderloin Medallions (will be carved on the buffet), Parmesan Crusted Chicken Breast shown here with the mushroom cream sauce and the marinara sauce, green beans sauteed with shallots and red peppers, and two different potatoes. The steamed new potatoes were good, but the roasted yukon gold tossed with olive oil and rosemary were delicious, so that's the one we chose.



Yeah. We chose the limoncello sauce. Sweet, light, and rich. We'll have it served on the side, so the chicken doesn't get soggy, but I may ask for a bowl of it and eat it like soup.

For dessert, we decided on a fresh fruit display to supplement the very tasty wedding cake.

And that was it. We'd had a great day, loads of fun, tasted lots of tasty food, and we planned "Our Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding"!

And now we're REALLY excited for September!

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you just cracked me up on that one! Make sure you cover what they arrange for DJ services at the reception. I'm a mobile DJ and have thought about trying to get into their wedding DJ area when I move down there
Glad to have made you laugh.

What we found out about the DJ is that Disney will assign one of their DJs to us and he'll contact us about 30 days before our reception to get our list of songs,etc.

I'll try to remember to include that when the time comes.
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Did you bring anything home for Tolliver?
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you just cracked me up on that one! Make sure you cover what they arrange for DJ services at the reception. I'm a mobile DJ and have thought about trying to get into their wedding DJ area when I move down there

Play, come on
Play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
Play, come on dj
Play that song
You that it turns me on
Just turn it up and turn me on
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Um . . . a hug.

We don't typically let him eat "people food" so we don't bring leftovers home to him. Though that rule does tend to go out the window when Grandma and Papa are in town because my parents are determined to spoil our dog. (or the "Grandpuppy" as he is sometimes known)
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This reminds me of a note I need to make for the DJ:

NO CHICKEN DANCE!
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Wow! That food looks yummy. Happy planning!
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