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Old 03-08-2013, 08:40 PM   #1
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I really get why ther is a higher divorce rate in families of kids with special needs....my stress rate is sky high right now. I am sick of illness and meltdowns and a husband who saysnsomething like "let me know when the house is clean, because I'm not coming home until it is." I homeschool 4 teens, 3 of whom have differing levels of special needs, I drop things and run errands for him when he asks, I handle all the bill pay for the household, he hasn't washed a clothing item in 18 years.......yeah the house gets away from me sometimes, I admit it, but today nearly did me in!
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Old 03-08-2013, 10:05 PM   #2
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Relax, and keep your focus on what is important and do not let others inabilites to do the same get to you, even when it is your significant other.
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Old 03-11-2013, 06:44 PM   #3
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I'm sorry---you have a lot on your plate. The first time my dh complained about my housekeeping, I'd hand him a broom and mop, and window cleaner, and kitchen cleaner, and the toilet bowl scrubber, LOL!!!

Maybe when things are calmer, you guys can sit down, and figure out what's a priority, what can slide, and who is going to do what, to accomplish those goals.

I can't imagine homeschooling 4 kids, and being able to do much else other than preparing meals and laundry. My house would look like a natural disaster had swept through!!
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Old 03-11-2013, 09:11 PM   #4
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My husband can be the same way. It used to get me stressed out and agrivate me but then one day I came to the realization that I was not going to change him. From then on I made myself not be affected by his inconsiderate comments. I told myself I am not going to get aggrivated and stressed out by him and when he says stupid things, it goes in one ear and out the other (literally).
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