**Ashley & Brian's 10/26/13 Swan Wedding**

[xAshleyx]

Originally Posted by MickeysStarTrader

Hey Ashley! What a cute family you have! I was so excited to see that you and I are getting married at Disney on the same day!!! I will definitely be following your plans! We can keep each other in check this will be a little long and I apologize, but some of the things you've said have really hit home with me

I think it's very brave of you to voice this, I get the feeling that some brides think that people holding this view are criticizing their decision to have a DFTW. But everyone is entitled to their opinion I had my heart set on a DFTW but after discovering all the rules, I couldn't handle it. I went through the same thing you did and I agree with you completely!

I'm sorry that this happened to you I had some people guilt me that my wedding was an inconvenience - but I'm not making anyone go!

I agree with you again, I don't think that you should spend $12K necessarily just because you can. Again I think for a lot of brides it can come down to DFTW and wait longer for a house or form a new plan and have a house sooner. We decided we wanted the house sooner and we're happy to sacrifice a Wishes wedding for that... but again many brides think that my opinion there is a criticism of them

We noticed this too! The APs were a huge factor in persuading us to go with Escape beforehand

Both great choices! I can't wait to hear what you decide!

I've read similar things and now we can't decide on an in-park shoot! Have you come to a decision? So excited for more!

Hey !! Thanks for following along !
Same day?! That's so exciting. What location and time is your wedding ?
I'm glad you mentioned I'm not being negative about DFTW. I think their FABULOUS, just not for my budget and needs :-)

I'll have another update hopefully later today. I'm starting my PJ pretty much a year after we got engaged so I can't wait to catch up on everything so I can share some current updates lol