ruadisneyfan2
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 20, 2006
Dayvewc, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending another NJ hug out to you.
It's good that you were able to be there and for your own peace of mind to know he was surrounded by loved ones.
I lost my grandmother in late Sept and though my job grants 3 days of funeral leave, my parents made the arrangements which left me quite a lot of time. I found what helped me most was going through old pictures and creating a power point slide show to music. I had planned to have it playing on dh's laptop on a small table in a corner at the post funeral luncheon for anyone who wished to view it. It turned out the private room we were in had a big screen tv and everyone was able to watch it while we waited for our food. Considering I threw it together in 2 days, it turned out amazing. Over the next few days I tweaked it, added more pics and another song, then converted it dvd.
It's so beautiful but then it made me cry more that I wished I had made this video while she was alive; she would have thoroughly enjoyed it.
Anyway, I found it to be a constructive way to work through my grief.
It's good that you were able to be there and for your own peace of mind to know he was surrounded by loved ones.
I lost my grandmother in late Sept and though my job grants 3 days of funeral leave, my parents made the arrangements which left me quite a lot of time. I found what helped me most was going through old pictures and creating a power point slide show to music. I had planned to have it playing on dh's laptop on a small table in a corner at the post funeral luncheon for anyone who wished to view it. It turned out the private room we were in had a big screen tv and everyone was able to watch it while we waited for our food. Considering I threw it together in 2 days, it turned out amazing. Over the next few days I tweaked it, added more pics and another song, then converted it dvd.
It's so beautiful but then it made me cry more that I wished I had made this video while she was alive; she would have thoroughly enjoyed it.
Anyway, I found it to be a constructive way to work through my grief.