Just wanted to vent and see if you all think this is as greedy as it felt to me. My cousin, who is turning 37, is having a birthday party for herself and her mother at a local chain restaurant. Her mother lives out of town so it would be nice to see her. This is a pay-for-your-own-meal situation where they are reserving a portion of the restaurant for the party. I am perfectly okay with that. However, the invitation says "gifts are not necessary. (cousin's name) would like to go to Disney again so (cousin's name) would like to have Disney or Universal gift cards. What?! Did I read that right?.....Yes, I did read that right! Okay. Seriously, my reactions were:
1) You are turning 37, not 9.
2) I am paying for my own meal and to see my family and aunt. What are you paying for?
3) Because of #2, you are not paying for anything and asking me to give you money so you can go to Disney. How about I keep my money and buy myself a Disney gift card?
Am I overreacting? I may go and bring birthday cards for my aunt and cousin but that's it.
1) You are turning 37, not 9.
2) I am paying for my own meal and to see my family and aunt. What are you paying for?
3) Because of #2, you are not paying for anything and asking me to give you money so you can go to Disney. How about I keep my money and buy myself a Disney gift card?
Am I overreacting? I may go and bring birthday cards for my aunt and cousin but that's it.