I wonder if I'm an exception. I booked my Free Dining vacation less than 100 days out. Called in the AM of my 90 day mark (at about 8:30) and I got everything I wanted at the time I wanted. Only issue I had was that I wanted Ohana at 6:30 and I ended up with 5:30. Then, I started reading DIS and changed my reservations about a million times and I've been able to get most of what I want on the day I want and everything I want if I am flexible with time. I really think people need to lighten up. It's *just* food.
I have changed ressies a number of times as well, and I was able to get what I wanted when I called 90+10. My experience with Disney Dining has always been excellent.
However, for me it isn't "just food."
I admire anyone who can feel that way! Very cool.
I saw somewhere the quotation " Food IS a theme park" or something along those lines, and it sums up my feelings perfectly. For me, it's all about the food. I spend at at least three times more doing food planning than lodging, attractions.
Granted, some of that could be because I'm familiar with the attractions at Disney, but it really wouldn't matter . . . it's all about the food!
I have such a heartfelt hope that the original poster here finds the reservations wanted. I can totally relate! I'm saying a prayer that at the end of this post willl be a note that all ended well.
In the meantime, I will say again (see post 18 on this thread for details): CALL AND SPEAK WITH DISNEY PERSONALLY. How can they know there are issues if there aren't voices to give feedback?
If enough people call or write Disney will listen. It is in their best interest to care.
Hoping for a happy ending here.